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Well I had my op on the 29th of September, I felt fine after it and I asked to come home on the 2nd of October, thought I would get more rest at home and less risk of catching any bugs LOL, they said I could stay until the Saturday when they removed my stitches but I said no, so the district nurse came to remove them, I got up and walked the same day as my op and was walking loads by the Wednesday, I have walked most days since coming home, and me been me hates resting am totally bored!!! I have to say this last few days I have not felt as well as I did so I went for a check up on Friday and they tell me my stomach hurts because they moved my bowel and they don't like been moved, so its protesting (thats about right for me) hopefully it will settle down.

After I had my op my cousin rang to say my aunt was ill, Bob and my sister decided not to tell me until I came home, so when they told me and I rang they had taken her into hospital, so I never got chance to say goddbye she had cancer and died last Sunday, this has been another shock not even a year after my Mum so the dreaded cancer strikes again, it was lung cancer and very aggressive, they said 2 months and then said hours but in fact she managed another week but finally last sunday she fell asleep. The funeral is next Thursday the 23 in Norfolk, we have decided to hire a mini bus and driver so that will take the pressure off any of us driving, we are going to go there and back in the day with plenty of stops for me as I won't be able to sit for so long, Adam does not want to go as he is still missing my mum and dosent want to go to another funeral, Bob was gonna stay home and be there for Adam but he is gonna sleep at a friends and then Bob will pick him up early next morning, so then he can get ready for school, well thats the plan, but he is full of cold at the moment so things could change again.

So at the moment lifes just passing on by, I am trying not to let this get me down so am trying not to think too much, but with a lot of time on my hands its hard not to.